{"id":318,"date":"2024-08-04T18:56:53","date_gmt":"2024-08-04T18:56:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tallblackguy.com\/write\/?p=318"},"modified":"2024-08-21T00:56:10","modified_gmt":"2024-08-21T00:56:10","slug":"california-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tallblackguy.com\/write\/2024\/08\/04\/california-love\/","title":{"rendered":"California love."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, I left home, to go back home. If that doesn&#8217;t make sense, let me go backwards a bit. I left the place I&#8217;ve lived for almost 25 years to go back to the place I grew up in. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I went back for a high school reunion, but I also wanted to see my people. The notion that I was on vacation to do things went by the wayside as I realized that I was incorrect. I was not here to go places, I was there to see people. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;m going to Amoeba Music! I&#8217;m going to LACMA! I&#8217;m going to the La Brea Tar Pits!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No the bleep I was not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s a great problem to have, that. To be in demand to a point where you can&#8217;t do things because you have all of these people who want to make time to see you. And I had five days to do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I ate great and laughed long. What more could there be to this? We talked about life, adulting, the things we&#8217;re doing and want to be doing, a world of imagination and the one we have to deal with in this reality. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I ate outside whenever possible, and soaked up as much sun as I could; we have Vitamin D deficiencies in the Midwest, you know. Had to soak up as much sun and warmth as possible; the day is coming where I&#8217;ll have neither. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The place I knew is largely gone; I don&#8217;t live in my old house, a lot of the places I used to go to aren&#8217;t there anymore, and I really have to come to grips with the fact that there&#8217;s nothing still there but my memories. But that can&#8217;t stop me from making new memories. Isn&#8217;t that a side effect of aging gracefully? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe next year I&#8217;ll be able to go to the museums and such&#8230;or, maybe, I&#8217;ll get caught up again and spend my days with people I love. Why not both, though? We shall see. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, I left home, to go back home. If that doesn&#8217;t make sense, let me go backwards a bit. I left the place I&#8217;ve lived for almost 25 years to go back to the place I grew up in. I went back for a high school reunion, but I also wanted to see my people. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[7],"class_list":["post-318","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-original","tag-introspective"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tallblackguy.com\/write\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/318","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tallblackguy.com\/write\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tallblackguy.com\/write\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tallblackguy.com\/write\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tallblackguy.com\/write\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=318"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tallblackguy.com\/write\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/318\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":319,"href":"https:\/\/www.tallblackguy.com\/write\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/318\/revisions\/319"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tallblackguy.com\/write\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=318"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tallblackguy.com\/write\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=318"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tallblackguy.com\/write\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=318"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}